You stayed around your children as long as you could, inhaling the ambient gold shavings of their childhood, and at the last minute you tried to see them off into life and hoped that the little piece of time you’d given them was enough to prevent them from one day feeling lonely and afraid and hopeless. You wouldn’t know the outcome for a long time. Meg Wolitzer
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There was a time when your children were young that you were there for them as much as you possibly could. You knew that they needed you by their side, even if it meant going without your own enjoyment to make sure they were okay. But, as they grew older and started exploring the world on their own, things changed. That's when they began to become independent and you no longer had a say in what they did.

It was a good thing you stayed around as long as you did, though, because it will prevent them from one day feeling lonely and afraid and hopeless. You wouldn't know the outcome for a long time.

Source: The Tenyear Nap

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